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Reader Question:
You will find this female buddy. She thinks i'd generate an B+/A boyfriend, but she says there isn't any spark. One-night after we went partying, I made a decision to kiss her. She kissed me back a significant way.
We talked-about it 2 days afterwards and she mentioned she merely kissed because she had been tipsy and she would do not have kissed me sober. That finished up in a disagreement because she ended up being acting no different from exactly how she works sober, and I stated she probably had a desire to kiss-me caused by how she kissed me back.
I apologized and in addition we tend to be to regular.
You think she does have emotions in my situation? Can I hug her once again?
-Oliver (Caribbean)
Dr. Wendy Walsh's Answer:
Oliver,
This woman is messing with your mind. 1st she insults you by claiming you'll be a less-than-perfect date, right after which she claims you're only worth kissing whenever she is drunk.
I would place this lady straight in the buddy region. And when you pull all those things fuel, see how she responds.
If she actually is playing hard to get to save lots of her reputation, she'll have to be prepared for that when you stop following.
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